Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Love Talk: Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other

You hear things like; “ I don’t get along with women,” “ I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”

A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way.

Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival.

Pls Advice: My Cousin Forces Himself On Me

I saw this on Vanguard. What advice would you give her? Read below,
From time to time, I spend the holidays with my mum’s elder sister and I used to get on well with my cousins. But early last year, I woke to feel the hand of my eldest cousin under my nightie. 
I was so frightened though curious that I pretended to still be sleeping. After this, he tried to have full sex with me, but I pushed him off. Then he started being very nice to me, introducing me to his friends and giving me presents. I was having such a good time that when next he came to the guest room, I let him have sex with me. He now thinks he could do that any time he wants but I’ve told him to stop. 
Recently, he’s been forcing me to have sex with him whether I like it or not. I enjoy the sex but I’m only 16 and he is my first cousin. How do I make him stop?

MUST READ: The Nigerian Men We Are Raising

This is not a Nigerian man-bashing article.

My father and brother are Nigerian. My husband most likely will be Nigerian too. I really love Nigerian men, but I think they are sort of a ‘special breed’. Why? There are so many negative traits and behaviours that seem unique to our countrymen.

I’ve reflected on them and I think a lot of it has to do with how we raise our men. Because many Nigerians are ‘religious’, we raise our sons in a ‘do as I say, not as I do’ type of way. You might be telling your son one thing, but what he observes is another. The sins of the father (and mother) then become the sins of the son.

From impatience to infidelity, here are some of the ways I’ve noticed men are raised differently, and how they manifest in later life.

Why Do Guys Refuse To Shave Their Armpit Hair??!

Is it just me that finds this really offensive, i don't understand how someone would not shave for a whole album cover! Ahan! lol. If the guy is flashing his armpit hair for the song cover picture, it would be safe to assume that it was planned and he did it on purpose.....Does that mean some ladies find this attractive in some way?? 

Caption This + Win Tickets

My tickets are still very much available oh. Courtesy of Carmudi , we would be giving out 2 free tickets to the Lagos International Festival 2015 which kicks off tomorrow (You could read more about it here and here). So the best two captions for this picture wins the tickets....PLEASE caption this pic :-)

What Is The Difference Between The Police And The Army?

I have always wondered what the difference is between Nigeria's army men and the police. Looks like both of them could virtually do the same job or even be improvised for the other  I have seen both the policemen and the armed forces fighting crime, collecting bribe, arresting people, standing at check points and so on. So where exactly do they draw the line? What's their job description or jurisdiction? It sounds to me like they are basically doing the same thing. Could someone throw more light on this? Thanks

The Battle: Emma Nyra VS Lilian Esoro

CONTESTANTS: Singer  Emma Chukwugoziam Obi a.k.a Emma Nyra


Nigerian actress and event presenter, Lilian Esoro

You guys would act as the mirror....Mirror, Mirror On The Wall, Who Is The Most Beautiful Of Them All?

See pics below

Did He or Did He Not?


Question Of The Morning

A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house, where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport. He left for the office. The wife took a Taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other. Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi.

PIC Of Man Allegedly Punished @ Ikeja For Not Using The Pedestrian Bridge

Is this right or wrong? 

LOL! Another Man Is Travelling From Kaduna To Lagos To Thank Yorubas For Voting Buhari (See PIC)

It's officially a trend guys. It was Suleiman Hashimu, who started the whole thing. He decided to walk from Lagos to Abuja to honor the president-elect, in fulfillment to a promise he had earlier made. Suleiman was eventually honored by Buhari. Now others are copying him.  

A certain, Abubakar Duduwale is currently on his way from Yola to Abuja, on foot, just to express his 'joy'

The newest to join the group is, Mohammed, a resident of Hayin Malam Bello in Rigasa district of Igabi local government area of Kaduna State. He is going by bicycle from Kaduna to Lagos, to thank Yorubas for voting Buhari. Mohammed took off on his journey to Lagos at exactly 6: 35am at the palace of Sarkin Hayin Malam Bello, Alhaji Kabiru Isa Gangarida.

Speaking to newsmen before embarking on the journey, Mohammed said:
“I have decided to embark on this journey to Lagos because I want to go and thank Yoruba people for their immense support and contributions that led to the victory of General Muhammadu Buhari during the

Mavins' Reekado Banks Graduates From UNILAG (See PICS)


It's always refreshing to see a Nigerian star, go to school and actually graduate from the school. Congrats Reekado!
Another pic below

Cheating or ‘Self-Service’? Watch OC Ukeje, Ini Edo & More Celebrities Decide What They Would Want Their Spouse to Do

At the recently held Africa Magic Viewer’s Choice Awards, FlytimeTV was on the red carpet with on-air personality Nedu as they put celebrities on the spot by asking a tricky question.

FlytimeTV asked, ‘Would you prefer your spouse to masturbate or cheat on you?’

Watch what OC Ukeje, Femi Branch, Lilian Unachukwu, Charles Novia, Mike Ezuruonye, Nse Ikpe-Etim, Uru Eke, Ini Edo, Gabriel Afolayan, Eucharia Anunobi, Gideon Okeke and more have to say below.

Culled from Bella Naija

Toyin Lawani Celebrates Her First Child As She Turns 10


This Denrele's New Hairstyle Tho

The guy is just epic! lol

In The Name Of Fashion: Moet Abebe

Are you feeling the look?

Jonathan, Sambo & Others To Get N3.24bn Severance Pay; Nigerians Blast Them

According to Punch, President Goodluck Jonathan, Vice-president Namadi Sambo, non-returning federal lawmakers, ministers and   presidential aides will collect N3.24bn as severance allowances.

The severance allowances   are contained in the Remuneration Package   put together by the Revenue Mobilisation, Allocation and Fiscal Commission.

According to the package, Jonathan, who will hand over to the President-elect, Muhammadu Buhari, on May 29, is entitled to 300 per cent of his annual basic salary.

The President’s annual basic salary is put at N3, 514,705 and therefore his severance allowance will be N10, 544,115 after May 29.

Identification Of The 300 Women/Girls Rescued From Sambisa Has Started

We are still not sure if the Chibok girls were part of those found yesterday. However, SaharaReporters can confirm, based on conversations with sources in the military High Command, that Nigerian troops indeed rescued up to 300 girls and women from Boko Haram camps in the Sambisa Forest.

One military source told SaharaReporters that all effort is being made to give the girls medical treatment and care before the military investigates their identities.  Military sources cannot yet confirm whether any of the victims are the Chibok Girls.

Earlier yesterday Major General Olukolade stated that the Nigerian military destroyed at least three Boko Haram terrorist camps in a coordinated attack in the Sambisa Forest. Included in these three camps is the destruction of the Tokumbere camp, said to be Boko Haram’s most notorious camp. 

My question now is, was there any other kidnapping of about 300 women by Boko Haram apart from the Chibok girls? If there was, how come nobody did anything about it or made it public information like they did with the Chibok Girls? I really don't get oh....if they are not the Chibok Girls, then who are they?

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