Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Love Talk: Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other

You hear things like; “ I don’t get along with women,” “ I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”

A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way.

Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival.

Pls Advice: My Cousin Forces Himself On Me

I saw this on Vanguard. What advice would you give her? Read below,
From time to time, I spend the holidays with my mum’s elder sister and I used to get on well with my cousins. But early last year, I woke to feel the hand of my eldest cousin under my nightie. 
I was so frightened though curious that I pretended to still be sleeping. After this, he tried to have full sex with me, but I pushed him off. Then he started being very nice to me, introducing me to his friends and giving me presents. I was having such a good time that when next he came to the guest room, I let him have sex with me. He now thinks he could do that any time he wants but I’ve told him to stop. 
Recently, he’s been forcing me to have sex with him whether I like it or not. I enjoy the sex but I’m only 16 and he is my first cousin. How do I make him stop?

MUST READ: The Nigerian Men We Are Raising

This is not a Nigerian man-bashing article.

My father and brother are Nigerian. My husband most likely will be Nigerian too. I really love Nigerian men, but I think they are sort of a ‘special breed’. Why? There are so many negative traits and behaviours that seem unique to our countrymen.

I’ve reflected on them and I think a lot of it has to do with how we raise our men. Because many Nigerians are ‘religious’, we raise our sons in a ‘do as I say, not as I do’ type of way. You might be telling your son one thing, but what he observes is another. The sins of the father (and mother) then become the sins of the son.

From impatience to infidelity, here are some of the ways I’ve noticed men are raised differently, and how they manifest in later life.

Why Do Guys Refuse To Shave Their Armpit Hair??!

Is it just me that finds this really offensive, i don't understand how someone would not shave for a whole album cover! Ahan! lol. If the guy is flashing his armpit hair for the song cover picture, it would be safe to assume that it was planned and he did it on purpose.....Does that mean some ladies find this attractive in some way?? 

Caption This + Win Tickets

My tickets are still very much available oh. Courtesy of Carmudi , we would be giving out 2 free tickets to the Lagos International Festival 2015 which kicks off tomorrow (You could read more about it here and here). So the best two captions for this picture wins the tickets....PLEASE caption this pic :-)

What Is The Difference Between The Police And The Army?

I have always wondered what the difference is between Nigeria's army men and the police. Looks like both of them could virtually do the same job or even be improvised for the other  I have seen both the policemen and the armed forces fighting crime, collecting bribe, arresting people, standing at check points and so on. So where exactly do they draw the line? What's their job description or jurisdiction? It sounds to me like they are basically doing the same thing. Could someone throw more light on this? Thanks

The Battle: Emma Nyra VS Lilian Esoro

CONTESTANTS: Singer  Emma Chukwugoziam Obi a.k.a Emma Nyra


Nigerian actress and event presenter, Lilian Esoro

You guys would act as the mirror....Mirror, Mirror On The Wall, Who Is The Most Beautiful Of Them All?

See pics below

Did He or Did He Not?


Question Of The Morning

A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house, where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport. He left for the office. The wife took a Taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other. Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi.

PIC Of Man Allegedly Punished @ Ikeja For Not Using The Pedestrian Bridge

Is this right or wrong? 

LOL! Another Man Is Travelling From Kaduna To Lagos To Thank Yorubas For Voting Buhari (See PIC)

It's officially a trend guys. It was Suleiman Hashimu, who started the whole thing. He decided to walk from Lagos to Abuja to honor the president-elect, in fulfillment to a promise he had earlier made. Suleiman was eventually honored by Buhari. Now others are copying him.  

A certain, Abubakar Duduwale is currently on his way from Yola to Abuja, on foot, just to express his 'joy'

The newest to join the group is, Mohammed, a resident of Hayin Malam Bello in Rigasa district of Igabi local government area of Kaduna State. He is going by bicycle from Kaduna to Lagos, to thank Yorubas for voting Buhari. Mohammed took off on his journey to Lagos at exactly 6: 35am at the palace of Sarkin Hayin Malam Bello, Alhaji Kabiru Isa Gangarida.

Speaking to newsmen before embarking on the journey, Mohammed said:
“I have decided to embark on this journey to Lagos because I want to go and thank Yoruba people for their immense support and contributions that led to the victory of General Muhammadu Buhari during the

Mavins' Reekado Banks Graduates From UNILAG (See PICS)


It's always refreshing to see a Nigerian star, go to school and actually graduate from the school. Congrats Reekado!
Another pic below

Cheating or ‘Self-Service’? Watch OC Ukeje, Ini Edo & More Celebrities Decide What They Would Want Their Spouse to Do

At the recently held Africa Magic Viewer’s Choice Awards, FlytimeTV was on the red carpet with on-air personality Nedu as they put celebrities on the spot by asking a tricky question.

FlytimeTV asked, ‘Would you prefer your spouse to masturbate or cheat on you?’

Watch what OC Ukeje, Femi Branch, Lilian Unachukwu, Charles Novia, Mike Ezuruonye, Nse Ikpe-Etim, Uru Eke, Ini Edo, Gabriel Afolayan, Eucharia Anunobi, Gideon Okeke and more have to say below.

Culled from Bella Naija

Toyin Lawani Celebrates Her First Child As She Turns 10


This Denrele's New Hairstyle Tho

The guy is just epic! lol

In The Name Of Fashion: Moet Abebe

Are you feeling the look?

Jonathan, Sambo & Others To Get N3.24bn Severance Pay; Nigerians Blast Them

According to Punch, President Goodluck Jonathan, Vice-president Namadi Sambo, non-returning federal lawmakers, ministers and   presidential aides will collect N3.24bn as severance allowances.

The severance allowances   are contained in the Remuneration Package   put together by the Revenue Mobilisation, Allocation and Fiscal Commission.

According to the package, Jonathan, who will hand over to the President-elect, Muhammadu Buhari, on May 29, is entitled to 300 per cent of his annual basic salary.

The President’s annual basic salary is put at N3, 514,705 and therefore his severance allowance will be N10, 544,115 after May 29.

Identification Of The 300 Women/Girls Rescued From Sambisa Has Started

We are still not sure if the Chibok girls were part of those found yesterday. However, SaharaReporters can confirm, based on conversations with sources in the military High Command, that Nigerian troops indeed rescued up to 300 girls and women from Boko Haram camps in the Sambisa Forest.

One military source told SaharaReporters that all effort is being made to give the girls medical treatment and care before the military investigates their identities.  Military sources cannot yet confirm whether any of the victims are the Chibok Girls.

Earlier yesterday Major General Olukolade stated that the Nigerian military destroyed at least three Boko Haram terrorist camps in a coordinated attack in the Sambisa Forest. Included in these three camps is the destruction of the Tokumbere camp, said to be Boko Haram’s most notorious camp. 

My question now is, was there any other kidnapping of about 300 women by Boko Haram apart from the Chibok girls? If there was, how come nobody did anything about it or made it public information like they did with the Chibok Girls? I really don't get oh....if they are not the Chibok Girls, then who are they?

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Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Question Of The Night

Justin Bieber Looks Like A Girl In New Photoshoot

Justin Bieber is on the cover of Hero Magazine...You like?
See more pics below

Heavily Pregnant Kate Pictured Driving Out Of The Palace (See PICS)

The Duchess of Cambridge, is four days overdue. She should have given birth to her second child over the weekend, but somehow she is past her due date. However, that did not stop her from being up and about. The Duchess was pictured this morning driving away from Buckingham Palace with 5 bodyguards, after taking  her first child to the Queen's pool. 

Meanwhile, since the beginning of April, some people have been camping outside the hospital she would most likely use to welcome her baby

See more pics after the cut

Awww! Who Remembers This? (See PIC)

Back in da days! How many of you used this?

LOL! Does This Happen To Your DSTV Too?

Our very new decoder developed some fault few weeks back. We took it to DSTV office and they kept posting us, telling us to come the day after....and after...and on and on. We have eventually decided to dash them the decoder, since they obviously are not ready to fix it. DSTV services are really terrible

Seems Like They Have Found The Chibok Girls

In a daring and precise operation the Nigerian troops have stormed the Sambisa Forest and rescued about 300 women and girls.

The PRNigeria gathered that at least three major terrorists camps have been destroyed in the well-cordinated attacks that include the destruction of the notorious Tokumbere camp in the Sambisa Forest.

While confirming the operation the Director Defence Information, Major General Chris Olukolade said he could not confirm the identity of the freed victims and their origins and he could not state if any of them was from Chibok until after thorough screening and proper investigations.

He said: 
“I can only confirm the rescued this afternoon of 200 girls and 93 women in different camps in the forest. We are yet to determine their origin as all the freed persons are now being screened and profiled. Please don’t misquote me on their origin. We will provide more details later.”
Report By PRNigeria. More tweets below

Rolayo's Journal: "The Issues"

Rolayo's Journal is the very interesting story of a young lady. It's a journal that showcases what she passes through- the fun times, the not-so-fun times, the temptations and the trials of her every day life. It's a journal being kept for her unborn child who she plans to call-"Kikelomo"....It's being featured on this blog occasionally on Tuesdays. Just incase you missed the last journal entry you could catch up HERE

Here's the 29th journal entry...Enjoy!

Title: "The Issues"

Dear Kike,

In this part of the world, people are afraid to talk about the issues behind the important issues. Let me give an example; it is easy for parents to warn their sons not get any girl pregnant- they even back it up with threats and all (“I wih disown you!” or “I wih Kih you with my own bare hands!). Or they’ll tell a 14 year old girl something like, “See ehn, Tawa, you are a woman now, if man toush ya hand, na bele you go carry! ” All these sick stuff... But they find it hard to talk about the real issues- sex, in this case. I know we are a culture that believes that certain things aren’t spoken about, and it’s probably good, maybe it helps to keep the morality quotient very high. The problem is... If the “issues” aren’t talked about, there are many people who are more than willing to feed people’s heads with trash, so why not find a way to pass across helpful and healthy information?

Very True! (See PIC)

How Many Triangles Can You See???

Courtesy of Carmudi , we would be giving out free ticket to Lagos International Festival 2015 (You could read more about it here and here) The first person to get the answer wins the ticket! :-) Let's  hear many triangles do you see?

Pls Advice: Should My Friend Stand In As My Domestic Help?

Please help me post this, I need opinions. My son is almost two years old and I'm having another baby at the end of this year in the US. My family is in Nigeria and my husband may not be able to come because of work. I will need help with the kids when I travel so we already plan that I will go with my househelp to work as my nanny. 
They brought her for me from the village and staying with me is her first time in Lagos. I'm about to get her passport and apply for her visa but I was randomly chatting with my former classmate who's also a good friend two days ago and I mentioned my itinerary to her and how I needed to go to immigration office and get the passport. Later that day she sent me a text and asked if she could go with me instead of my maid. She said she has experience with children and she understands that her role will be as my nanny and not friend. 
I really want to say yes as I won't lose anything, I will have to do her passport and visa but I am already planning to do for my maid. But the question is is it really advisable? I asked my husband and he said that the choice is mine. What do you think is wiser and if I have to tell my friend no, how should I say it? Please help me out here, should I just go with my maid whom I know I can give orders when it is necessary or agree to take my friend along?

Source: Thelmathinksblog


For real? Who agrees?

IK Ogbonna's Boo Gushes About Him

Love Nwatiti :-)

Actor Yul Edochie Involved In Gay Scandal Mess (See PICS)

On the 7th of April, Nollywood actor Yul Edochie took to twitter to tell the world about a gay man who is stalking him. His name is Steven Ugochukwu Nelson Onyebuchi. Now Steven has been sending all types of messages saying Yul is lying and the actor is actually gay. Steven shared some supposed ‘evidence’ on instagram to make his point....It's a whole lot of drama, personally i think the Steven guy is trying too much to prove a point, that's if there is any point in what he is saying at all. In one of his post he wrote,
“We were in a relationship, had issues caused by him. Warned him not to play silly games with me or I use all I v n soil his name. He didn’t know I was recording all our discussions including the ones he called me n the ones I called. He took on Twitter April 8 and accused me of forcing him to be gay, looking for police to get hold of me. All I did that day was to play our love discussion to my peeps. Show them our chat histories. All this came to him as a shock”
See what Yul posted initially and Steven's reaction after the cut

Massive Hotel In Bayelsa Allegedly Owned By Mama Peace (See PICS)

In 2013, SaharaReporters reported that the first lady has a multi-billion naira hotel, called Aridolf Resort Wellness Centre & Spa , However it seems not many people considered the report true. Fast forward to 2015 and international news site, Financial Times, is confirming SaharaReporters' report in a new article posted in the 21st of this month. Part of the article reads,
Today, Yenagoa is a sprawling construction site. But the Aridolf, which is owned by Patience Jonathan, wife of the outgoing president, is symptomatic of how superficial progress has been in addressing the festering sense of marginalisation in the region, which remains desperately impoverished despite benefiting from a tide of petrodollars in recent years.
See more pics of the massive place after the cut

Blast At Radio Station Kills Many In Kogi Town

A blast from suspected improvised explosives, Monday, killed many at Ta’o FM Radio station, located in Kuroko town of Adavi local government area of Kogi state, witnesses have told PREMIUM TIMES.

The radio station, which broadcasts mostly in Ebira language, is known for its radical stance on political analysis of the people of Ebira land.

The blast, according to witnesses, occurred at about 7pm after sporadic gunshots that lasted for about 10 minutes were heard by residents. Medinatu Ajayi, a resident of Kuroko said,

“The attack on Ta’o FM started at about 7PM when we began to hear series of gun shots and everyone began to scamper to safety before the blast went off. After the explosion everything became quiet. 
It was later that we heard that four persons within the FM station got killed and several others were injured. I saw many injured people being helped to the hospital by volunteers, most of them were soaked with blood”
The incident is the first of such bombing in that part of Kogi state.

Source: Premium Times

Adaeze Yobo Shows Off Amazing Post Baby Body (See PICS)

How do celebs do this sef? Adaeze welcomed her baby boy on the 31st of last forward 4 weeks later and she is back in shape! Her stomach is almost flatter than mine sef, lol. See another pic after the cut

Lagos State Unveils Brand New 2014 Kia Rio Cars To Act As Taxi (See PICS)

Incredible right? See another pic below

Choi! The Look Of Love! Ft. Kayswitch & His Babymama

Awww! doesn't that look make you want to fall in love..

In The Name Of Fashion

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Monday, April 27, 2015

Project Smile :-)

Vampire Diaries' Damon Ties The Knot (SEE PICS)

It's official! Vampire Diaries' Damon is off the market! The star, aka Ian Somerhalder married Nikki Reed yesterday in Santa Monica mountains. She and Ian started dating in July 2014....2 months after she split from her ex husband, Paul McDonald... See more pics below,

Should People Take Off Their Shoes At Doorsteps??

I was at a friend's place recently. And i realized that, in their don't wear shoes in. And when you get in you would find out that they also don't wear slippers. Unlike my house where you where slippers to any and everywhere, for theirs, you pull you shoes/slippers in front of the house and you walk bare footed to every part of the house....even to have your bath! That was a bit strange to me. What's your take guys? It's a house and you are supposed to keep the dirt yes! people should pull their shoes at the entrance. OR i wipe my shoe on the footmat and get in....afterall whether i go in with my shoes or not...the house would still be dirty....what say you?


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