Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Pls Advice: "My Kids Saw Us..."


I came across this on Nigerian Papalette, what would you advice them to do? Read below,
Goodmorning. I have something to ask because it's bothering a friend. her 7yr old twin sons ran into the master bedroom when their parents were having sex without knocking. actually, they saw how their mum was giving dad a bj. though they left when dad shouted at them, their parents are disturbed and don't know how to go about it with the kids. how to advise or explain things to the curious kids.
Should they be bothered guys?

8 comments:

  1. This is were sex education comes in. Dad and mum should sit them down, explain the concept of sex, why they should never try what they saw and concequences of indulging in such. They should not play around with words, they should be blunt
    Dr.........

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    1. Sex education at 7? For real? You must be kidding me

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    2. But u Don't expect the parents to leave the children with their own imaginations. They need to Be enlightened ASAP else they try Wat They saw with Friends or even themselves.... who knows.

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    3. It's the parents that needs to be enlightened! How would you be having sex...bj for that matter with the door unlocked? How silly can one get?! Pls abeg spare the children the gory details of your sexual exploits. They are too young to have to comprehend that.

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    4. 1. Sex can Be spontaneous but parents can Be more careful
      2. Those children ain't too young for sex education especially with wat They have seen
      3. We are in d 21st century, those children can have access to internet Nd can come across such act on dere.

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    5. Anon, do you realise that at the age of 5 your mind is well developed to recall experiences 20 years latter, do you realize that kids as young as 5 are experimenting what they see on TV or internet. Do you think the children will not find out what transpired from friends and the internet, sex therapist advice as early as 5 you begin sex education. My dear 7 is far from being young. If you dont educate your kids early, someone else will do the job for you. Wake up and smell the coffee.
      Dr.........

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    6. Abeg na your own be that. If you like start educating your kids at age 2, that's your own problem. There are ways you tell the kids never to try it out without telling them "word for word" what went down. You don't go about teaching a bunch of 7-year olds SEX EDUCATION! Do you even know what you are saying?? There is no way under heaven that they wouldn't experiment it if you teach them sex at such tender age. God bless you if the twins are different sexes...they can like to try it out with themselves....speaking from a "near" experience here

      The parents should just ensure it never repeats itself. Sefini

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  2. The parents should educate the twins especially if they're quick learners but leave out some intimate details for later years.

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